He also says that they have been regularly mistaken for one another, but to be honest, I think all white gay men in New York City look alike. “Every time we go out someone makes a comment about it, but I think it’s cute.” Todd also notes that as they’ve dated, he and his boyfriend have almost assimilated into each other, dressing more and more alike, which only exacerbates their resemblance. It makes him feel like a basic gay because people give us shit for it,” says Todd. He says that while he’s absolutely aware of how alike he and his partner look, he doesn’t mind at all - but his boyfriend definitely does. I spoke with a close friend of mine - we’ll call him Todd - who is one-half of a boyfriend twin couple. “I also feel like it’s conditioned into us that most ‘successful’ relationships are those with people who we have a lot in common with, which I think is more Disney romance false bullshit.” “There is nothing that racism doesn’t touch, but to say it’s just that wouldn’t be digging deep enough into it,” says Duran.
